In January of 2012, just after the New Year celebration, we went out to dinner with my friend Jen (she of the wonderful yoga retreats) and her husband Tom. Jen told us that she begins each year by choosing a word for that year. The word then becomes part of her life for the year in intentional and unintentional ways. This is an endearing quality of Jen’s – she puts something out there that might sound weird coming out of someone else’s mouth but coming from her, it sounds perfectly reasonable. Without thinking too carefully about it, the word that came to mind was “Push”. As I sat with it that night and over the next couple of days, my mind went in the direction of my work. “Push” meant teach more, attempt recipes I have been avoiding, create more original dishes. It also meant “Push” outside my introvert nature and get in front of more industry people, maybe get established with an agent and start on the road to publishing a book. I had no idea, in those January days a year ago, that what “Push” would ultimately mean is picking up my family and moving outside my comfortable and safe surroundings of the city in which I had spent almost my entire adult life. “Push” meant leaving beloved friends and family, my career, a city that I knew inside and out, and embarking on new adventures in a new town. Now, in my new surroundings, I no longer have my career but I am having to “Push” beyond my introvert nature in order to meet new friends. I am having to “Push” to make sure my son Graham gets taken care of in his new school.
With so much being new, I need to tell you that I am extra grateful to all of you who read this blog in this challenging and oh-so-rewarding year. I have mentioned several times how I have lost my rhythm when it comes to blogging. I miss it very much. Writing is like a muscle in that, if you don’t exercise it often, you lose your strength, endurance, and flexibility. Because I haven’t been posting regularly, it has become that much harder for me to sit down and just DO IT. So here we go. 2013, new year, new routine. I am committing to two food posts a week and one Slice of Life. I was very touched by your comments on my last post and delighted to read that you like those posts. (Comment #27 was particularly sweet.) I got some interesting suggestions so I plan to mix it up on occasion and talk about other things besides just regular everyday life. Sundays will be the day for these “other” posts and I’m thinking about featuring general thoughts on food and diet, party planning tips, general cooking tips, dinner party how-to’s, discoveries in the Bay Area, etc. Any suggestions are welcome.
I hope that Santa or Hanukkah Harry was good to you. I hope you have had a break from work or school. I hope that on Tuesday morning, you woke up to a new day with new possibilities and joy in your heart. I hope for the very best for you in 2013.